Soon after our marriage, I was sure I had made a mistake and wanted to leave and dissolve my marriage — actually many times within that first year — but I kept sticking it out as a result of a friend’s counsel. Right after we celebrated our first anniversary, I bought Wife for Life, the audio book and a few months after that attended Ramona’s webinar on Understanding Men, which brought me to Wife for Life University.
The course has given me so much more than I would have gotten from just the book…
At the beginning of the course, with what I was learning, I started feeling guilty about my first marriage, which ended in divorce. Of course I think getting remarried had something to do with that too, since the sealing of that marriage needed to be canceled, which brought up for my children the reality and pain of the divorce again. However, by the end of the course, I realized that I had done all that I could in my first marriage. I wish I could be more specific, but with the paradigm shift that I experienced that is helping me in my present marriage; there was also this letting go and healing regarding my first marriage. Guilt was gone, as was the grief and regret. In their places was forgiveness, (for both of us and most importantly for myself), and acceptance and gratitude. I don’t know how, but I do know that Wife for Life University was able to accomplish what many sessions of counseling had not.
Thank you Ramona and Wife for Life University!